Sexuality and sensuality are things we have really missed over the last few months and while self-gratification and perhaps some virtual or phone sex is great and can bridge the gap the sense of touch and physical contact is something that many men have missed over the last few months.

Gay Massage is Amazing

Gay Massage has all the benefits of great gay sex while also bringing a real sense of complete touch and sensuality while it is happening. Getting a gay massage is more about sensuality that gratification and that is why Gay Massage has been one of the most missed sexual experiences in the last few months and one of the most requested when regulations in your area allow.

Sensuality and sexuality combine when you have a great gay massage and it can encompass all the senses not simply a release. Here are the best ways massage tantalises our senses and why it has been so badly missed over the last few months.

Gay Massage and Touch – Probably the most obvious sense to be aroused when you think of a gay massage. A smart, sensual man running his hands all over your body making you moan is just the right amount of sensuous touch to invigorate the senses. Kneading and rhythmic rubbing all add to the touch sensation, from top to toe and back again, a sense of togetherness and male to male contact is simply sublime.

Gay Massage and Taste – Nice champagne and strawberries to start can really enhance any gay massage experience. This will help you relax and make the experience a real indulgence and can give you a happy place at intervals during the gay massage.

Gay Massage and Smell – Lighting relaxing, gorgeous smelling candles, using scented massage oils or just the smell of a well-groomed man massaging you is enough to make you happy and horny. Whatever you choose, ensure it is something you both like and so can both enjoy during the gay massage.

Gay Massage and Sight – If you choose one of the amazing gay escorts listed on sleepyboy.com then you will indeed have someone really special and gorgeous to look at. Pick a gay escort to deliver your gay massage that makes you hot, and you will enjoy looking at them throughout the whole gay massage experience.

Gay Massage and Sound – Relaxing, sensual music in the background of a great gay massage is a fantastic way of engaging your sense of sound when having a great gay massage. Some men like the music loud, and some like it soft so they can hear their sexy masseuse breathe and work on their bodies, and so they can moan nice and loud to indicate pleasure.

The Best Gay Massage

The only way to have the gay massage you want and so the best gay massage of your life is to engage all of the senses in some way above, this combined with great communication with a sexy gay massage will ensure they touch you just they way you like it and bring you to climax just as you need it, and not when you want it.

We know you have looked at the amazing gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com , they are the hottest men around, and when it comes to choosing who you think you should connect with we know it can be tricky deciding who to choose. Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, it’s an exciting prospect, and there are some hints and tips to get you started and make sure that this experience is perfect for you.

Choosing a Gay Escort Who is Right for You

Firstly, it sounds boring, but decide on your budget and stick to it. It’s easy to get swept up in the idea or the moment and end up spending double what you’d imagined. Don’t end the date on a bad note (no pun intended!), just be realistic with your finances. Fortunately finding a Gay Escort is the easy part, choosing which one is for you is often a little harder! SleepyBoy.com is the largest gay escort directory anywhere and it has hundreds of sexy gay escorts all across the UK and abroad, so you will be able to find one near you, and also one who likes what you like, so you can either just find one for a quick night of passion or one to really fulfil any gay sex fetish fantasy you may have.

Gay Escorts & Fetish Requirements

Find out what sexual acts the escort is prepared to do. If you’re thinking in a mainstream way then you’re probably guaranteed to be indulged, but if you’re after something more niche then you really need to check beforehand to avoid disappointment for you and annoyance for your escort. Don’t make the mistake of thinking “oh it’ll be all right when we’re in bed”, because if it’s a bit ‘out there’ and you haven’t organised it, then it won’t be. It is important to be as upfront as possible about your expectations. Have a good think beforehand of the type of gay escort that you are most interested in. Perhaps you have a specific look or build that you are after? In which case it pays to have a good browse around, so you end up with the best match possible.

Location of Gay Escort

There is a function on the sleepyboy.com website that lets you see Gay Escorts that are in your vicinity and who is currently online so you will be able to find one near you very quickly. This also works well if you are in a new city (or country) as you can see who is near you and not worry about how far away, they are to your hotel etc.

The best way to find an Escort is to go with your gut (or perhaps a little lower), when you look at his picture and read his profile does he make you hard, do you want to meet him – if the answer is yes then look a little more and what he says he will and won’t do, there is no point spending time with a gay escort who does not like satisfying your particular fetish – there are lots of hot guys on the sleepyboy.com directory just keep looking until you find a perfect match!

With more and more men discovering the delights of online sex with gay escorts, there has been an increase in sexy video production, especially for those guys who have a regular escort and they want to share their kinky ideas with!

Whether you are sending sexy videos to a ay escort or they are making ones for you to enjoy at your leisure there are some things that you should always think about when making these types of videos.

Personalised Porn or Sexy Videos!

Personalised porn. Or in other words – make your own sexy video. And here are some tips to ensure that your film is as hot as it gets.

OK, so how do we start?

• Have a plan. You don’t necessarily need to be closely following a script, but forward planning and ‘blocking’ shots will help stop any awkward fumbling. Preparation is key.
• Similarly, if you have a rough game plan then you each know what’s coming next and if you decide in advance what you want to see in your film, then you stand a much greater chance of making it happen.
• Take care of the lighting. You want to see all in your sex tape – you don’t want to see it all. Be aware of shadows and stay away from harsh lights. Candles can create a nice ambience in a room and give a soft, natural light, but then you’ll have to be hyper-aware of the fire risk. Swings and roundabouts...
• Be natural. If you don’t look comfortable then you won’t look natural, and if you’re trying to make this worth keeping then thinking ahead about how to suit your very own porn stars is a great move. If you think that you simply can’t relax in front of the camera, then consider a role play. Becoming a character is often easier than playing yourself.
• Beware the camera angle. If it’s too wide, then you’ll be compromising on intimacy. If it’s too high, then you’ll only be getting whoever is top – and that’s not fair. Try a lower angle to catch the best moments - and the best shots of your best parts.
• Give yourself a once-over. Would you prefer to be hirsute or hairless for your starring role? Get yourself looking great; shaved, moisturised, pampered – whatever it takes – and that will fuel your confidence and help make you a great film!
• Create a Story – You need to have some sort of story to your film; it does not need a complete script but it does need a bit of direction and a reason for being.

Last Video Tip

Be careful – Be careful what you share and how you share, it while you may want to make the most outrageous video, imagine what would happen if you shared it to a social media feed by accident (believe us it has happened) so while you may want to go wild, remember to be a little restrained in what you do and say when it is recorded. Leave the really kinky stuff for when you have phone chats with your gay escort or when you see them again in person!

Every now and then we get feedback for an Escort that we feel we have to reward, on this occasion, Hansel went above and beyond with one of our customers during a bad time in the client's life. I always say that sleepyboy is like a family, and even with the growth of the site (over 2000 guys)  I Marcus still keep my hand on the rudder with the sleepyboy family and so wanted to say a BIG THANKYOU to Hansel for his service to a sleepyboy member! We have rewarded him with a cash gift and making him escort of the month for July.

THANK YOU HANSEL!

The explosion in couples wanting to have amazing, kinky, and adventurous sex in the gay community is amazing. More and more monogamous couples want to relive the youthful freedoms of youth and they are doing it together with the help of a gay escort!

Gay Escorts are one of the most underused options for gay couples to spice up their sex life. How many gay couples out there have excitedly ordered sex toys online, wait for them to be delivered and then found them to be a little underwhelming when they arrive, or they are used once or twice and the relegated to a box under the bed?

Exciting gay Sex for Couples

Yes, lots of gay couples enjoy sex together but often want something a little more exiting and a gay Escort can provide a real thrill in the bedroom. Taking away the problems of including a friend, or even picking someone up in a club, the first of which can have a nasty after taste and the second means going to the effort of finding someone who wants exactly what you want – which in reality rarely happens. A gay escort to spice up your love life is the perfect balance to have fun without any aftereffects.

Choosing a Gay Escort Together

The beauty of deciding to hire a gay escort to spice up your gay couple sex life is that the experience of choosing the gay escort is half the fun! Spending time together looking over the biggest gay escort directory in the UK, SleepyBoy.com can be hours of fun in its own right. As a couple, you can use the search function to find just the right gay escort in your area that fits what you are looking for. It is always good to have a few favourites in case they are already booked when you call your first choice etc.

Where to Meet?

Wherever you decide to meet your chosen gay escort is entirely your choice, in the main there are three choices. Your place, this means having the escort into your home, a good choice if you are a little nervous, want to experience it together in your own home, or have a lot of toys, gadgets or costumes you want to play with. Their place, this means you go to the Escorts place, this can be a bit of an adventure on its own and it takes it away from your own home if that makes you uncomfortable. The third option is to book a hotel for the experience, this is a neutral place and can give the whole experience a nice sense of occasion and romance.

Kinky Gay Couples

Often gay couples hire a gay escort because the want to try something a little more experimental than ‘vanilla’ sex. Perhaps as a couple you really want to try a threesome with someone who won’t threaten your relationship in any way, or someone you don’t have to owe a favour to later on. Perhaps you both really want to experience a gay gang bang scenario so finding a few hot gay escorts to enjoy it with is an easy way to do it as a couple, and lastly if you are both submissive or both dominant and want to be played with or play with someone together then a Gay Escort is the obvious choice.

The amazing gay escorts at sleepyboy.com have always found innovative and exciting ways to pleasure you, and providing great gay sex services in different ways throughout lockdown has been an interesting development. Whether you and your favourite gay escort, have been sexting, zooming, camming or having phone sex, sex toys have been an important way of keeping the gay sex fresh and interesting until you can touch again!

Here is an overview of some of the toys you should consider if you are trying out lots of fun ways to have virtual sex over lockdown.

Low Tech Toys

Some of the most satisfying ‘toys’ to be used in a gay camming session are the most simple. Some great lube or lotion can go a really long way! Watching your hot gay escort wield whips or other dominating toys is a lot of fun, sexy clothing, or hot uniforms are all low tech items that can add something special to your time with your online escort.

Integrating Toys

With the advent of better technologies integrating fun technologies into your gay sex camming sessions is becoming more and more possible. With just a few taps of your keyboard, you can harness the power of digitally connected vibrators and other toys. If you favour using a tablet for your camming experience rather than a computer, then there are attachments which can provide you with a first - person POV. These high tech sex toys are not about replacing sex, however; these toys are all about enhancement so you get a realistic camming experience, one that will turn and titillate allowing your cam shows to achieve a high level of intimacy every time as you now have the capability and power to do more than just watch.

Using Your Toys

If you have a favourite sex toy, from vibrators, to butt plugs, or clothing you find sexy then let your gay escort know that you would like to use it while you are having your session. Letting him know about your gay sex fantasies and desires will ensure you will get the best out of your time together. He can tell you to start or stop with your toy, put it on or take it off – if you like to be dominated by a gay escort and like using your favourite toy then ask if this can be incorporated into your fantasy cam time with him.

As technology advances, so too do camming experiences, leading to greater fulfilment remotely, however the best thing about camming, sexting, phone chats are the hot, gay escorts who can listen to your needs and give you the best, most personal and hottest session available.

Gay Escorts know how to fulfil your needs and are looking forward to doing so in person as soon as possible, in the meantime you should see how amazing this hot and sexy guys are at talking dirty and giving you naughty instructions over a cam! You might just make this your favourite thing to do on a boring Tuesday night in the future!

This may be your first gay escort cam session , or you may be a seasoned pro, but there are a few do’s and don’ts that are easy to remember that can make you cam session much more enjoyable and memorable.

We’ve list our top five below:

Personal Privacy - This may seem like an obvious one, but it’s very important to remember, for both viewer and gay escort. Never give out your personal details over a cam session, and don’t ask for the hot guys personal deets either! If your ever asked for details on a cam session, it’s time to head for the exit! It’s far too easy to be tricked into giving away personal information in the heat of the moment so try and stay aware of the situation. Enjoy the hot and steam cam session without the worry about your personal details.

Get in the Mood! - Firstly, spend some time looking over the gay escort’s profiles, select a hot gay escort that you want to connect with and see if they are into what you are into. It’s always best to select someone with the same turn-on’s as yourself so you are not disappointed later, no dom wants to cam with another dom by accident! When you start your cam session, don’t be embarrassed to ask the gay escort what he’s into, take a little time to talk over your turn-on’s and fetishes. By spending a little time getting to know your escort in advance you will experience a much better cam session.

Feeback time - This may seem a bit weird, but giving feed back to your gay escort not only shows them how much you enjoyed your cam time, but also gives them some great hints and tips on how to better improve your experience. We all need a little feedback and guys escorts are no different. By developing a closer bond with your favourite escort you can return to them time and time again with confidence knowing that they’ll get it right for you, just the way you like it.

Check your Tech! - This can be a major mood killer! Imagine the scene, you’ve spent hours selecting your gay escort and waited days for some time with him, got online and started your session, and the feed is terrible because your internet connection is slow! The last thing you want is pixilated, jittering images and broken sound when you want some hot and steamy time with your guy – make sure you connection speed is up to scratch, that your tech is up to date and most importantly – stop downloading and free up your bandwidth.

Relax and Enjoy - Again, this may seem like stating the obvious, but most gay escorts tell us that lots of cam viewers can get a little embarrassed or anxious about a cam session. Just remember to relax and enjoy your gay cam session, that’s what the escorts are there for, your enjoyment!