Great gay sex is often more about how you feel about yourself than the sex itself, really great gay sex comes after an amazing sex session in which you have had the best orgasm of your life and you feel incredibly sexy. One of the biggest issues facing gay men is the image of themselves and whether or not they feel they look sexy enough!

Body Image and Gay Sex

Being concerned with how you look, how your body responds, the size of your penis, how much or little hair you have anywhere on your body can all play a part in how you feel about yourself. If you are not feeling positive about the way you look then you probably don’t feel that sexy either! Not feeling confident in your body can come at any time in your life, at any age, and even if to everyone else you look amazing. Having someone to have sex with that will encourage you to have a great time and enjoy you and your body just as it is, is really important.

Love Yourself, Love Gay Sex

One of the best ways to overcome feeling blue is by having sex, the endorphins and feeling you have after orgasm are one of the bodies great healing mechanisms, so having more sex is really good for you. Having gay sex with a gay escort is probably the best way to boost your confidence and have great gay sex at the same time. A gay escort is exclusively there to look after your needs, and you don’t have to worry about reciprocating or fulfilling their needs. A gay escort will care for you, make love to you, whatever your body looks like, they are there to make you feel amazing and making you comfortable is all part of that.

Gay Escort Make You Feel Sexy

Feeling sexy is half the challenge when it come to body image so instead of just a quickie with your gay escort perhaps consider a full boyfriend or date night experience where you get to know you gay escort better and he can wine and dine you and make you feel as wonderful as you should feel on date night with a handsome man. Once you have been romanced there is no fear of what comes next as it is all pre-arranged. Your gay escort will spend time looking, touching, kissing and caressing you body making you feel comfortable with both the escort and your own body. The extra romance time lets you feel relaxed and wanted by the gay escort so you can start to feel as sexy as you should.

Hot Gay Escorts

Gay Escorts are professional and experienced and love to make your gay sex experience magical. Let them know any fears or worries in advance so they can make sure they give you an experience you will never forget and will definitely want to repeat.

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Great sex is often regular sex and if you have the same escort on a regular basis then you may be wondering if it is appropriate to give them a gift?

Regular Gay Escorts

It is well known that the best sex happens when you have had regular sex with the same man for a while and you get to know what each other really likes. It is no different when it comes to escorts, the more you get to know an escort and see them regularly the more satisfied you will become. Becoming a regular with a Gay Escort is beneficial for both of you as you build that relationship.

Every Rent Boy will tell you that they prefer spending time with their regulars as they know what to expect and become comfortable and enjoy pleasuring the same man again and again. For the recipient they get a better experience and don’t have to spend time explaining what they like and don’t like. There is often more flexibility when you see the same Gay Escort on a regular basis as there are often preferential rates for regulars or the escort will may be willing to come and visit you on short notice.

Great Relationships make Great Gay Sex

Building a professional relationship with your Gay Escort is probably one of the most rewarding things you can do and many men who have a regular Rent Boy wonder about the etiquette around giving gifts to the escort and how they will feel about that.

Fortunately, the question is a good one to have, you have found an escort who you like, who satisfies your needs and that you see on a regular basis, if you want to give them a gift then they will most likely be happy to receive it. Hopefully by now you will have built up trust with your Gay Escort so that if they are at all uncomfortable that you have bought them a gift that they will be able to tell you, so you know exactly where you stand.

Giving gifts is however very welcome and the only thing to remember is that it can’t be used in lieu of payment, you pay for the escort’s time and then any tipping or gifts in addition to this is because you enjoy the time you have together. Common gifts given to escorts include Wine, Chocolates. Vouchers and small jewellery items. Your Gay Escort will not be expecting any gift and as such will probably be pleasantly surprised if you bring something for them, especially if it is something quite personal like their favourite wine, or tickets for their favourite band.

When considering getting your Gay Escort a Gift:

1. Do – Get them something personal to them
2. Do – Ensure gifts are given as an appreciation for their time and not as an expectation for extra services.
3. Do – Build a relationship and trust with your Escort before giving gifts
4. Do – Enjoy the act of picking something you think your Gay Escort will like
5. Don’t – Try and give a gift instead of an agreed payment
6. Don’t – Be offended if the Escort does not want to accept the gift – they will have their reasons
7. Don’t – Expect your Escort to reciprocate with Gifts to you

Gay Escorts are wonderful, exciting, and intensely sexual, but they are not mind readers, so for the best experience with them you need to ask for what you really want.

Hiring a gay escort is very different from going on a date, so a little preparation first can help the evening go a lot more smoothly. You are hiring the services of a professional - just as you would hire a builder to fix your roof, or an electrician if your circuits have blown, so remember not to be nervous and enjoy yourself.

Gay Escorts are Professionals

When engaging such professionals, you tell them what you require them to do; you come to an arrangement and agree on the set fees for their services. Hiring a male gay escort is no different. You should treat them in exactly the same way you treat any other person providing a professional service. You will find that is exactly how they treat you back, and eventually, you become a valued customer.

Communication is Key to Great Gay Sex

Communication is always the key to valued custom and being open and honest with your escort will ensure that you receive the services that you require and want.

It is very natural to feel embarrassed and nervous when meeting a gay male escort for the first time; the best thing you can do is speak up! It's easy to say, “Don't be shy”, which is true, as this is a professional relationship, and you are paying for his services, but talking openly about the fact that you are feeling shy will do far more when it comes to breaking down that boundary, as it will help you relax without even knowing it and before you know it, you will start to feel comfortable talking with your escort.

What Do You Want?

The moment when he asks you, ''What do you want?'' will be the point where you may hesitate and feel awkward but rest assured that your gay escort will have heard it all before - and probably a whole lot worse! Talking about sex, and sexual interests, is your escort's profession; he will not be shy or awkward with you, as he needs to know what you are expecting to pay for.

Communication is key with your escort; he aims to do his job well and give you the pleasure you desire, so the more he knows, the easier it is for him to leave you feeling fully satisfied with your escort experience. Always remember too, that your escort will be honest and upfront with you; he will let you know how he wishes to be paid - and when he expects to be paid. Once you have both been upfront and honest about your intentions, then all the hard work has been done. You can then sit back and look forward to what your time with your gay male escort has in store for you.

Ask and You Will Receive

Remember if you are still nervous, that there are many ways in which your escort can help you unwind. It’s essential to remember however, that escorts are not mind readers; you must speak up! Just remember that everyone has a first time when it comes to booking a male gay escort, and most feel shy and embarrassed - but rest assured that you really don't have to be; male gay escorts are some of the most open-minded people on the planet!

Sometimes you want more than just casual gay sex and that is where sexy gay escorts can be of service. Imagine a whole weekend with a sexy boyfriend who is there for your every need – and that doesn’t want anything back from you – that is what a gay boyfriend experience can offer.

More than Great Gay Sex

If you are looking for more than one-night stands or a succession of unsuitable, short-lived relationships to fulfil your sexual and emotional needs then spending time with a Gay Escort who offers the full boyfriend experience is a great option.

Romance in relationships is often overlooked and there is no need to go without, an educated and polite rent boy from sleepyboy.com can bridge the gap between soulless gay sex and a full-on relationship. If you need someone to be there for you in a boyfriend capacity without the reciprocal emotional investment needed from you then a boyfriend experience is for you.

Gay Boyfriend Experience

Gay escorts make the perfect boyfriends as they are educated, interesting, well-travelled, discreet, great looking and sexually skilled able to fulfil desires, indulge in fantasies and give you the time and attention you deserve without expecting anything in return. The Boyfriend experience you get from an experienced gay escort will be uniquely tailored to you needs, likes and schedule. This can include a host of date experiences like watching football together, having dinner in lovely restaurants to accompanying you on business trips across the UK and abroad.

Your Gay Escort will discuss with you exactly what you are looking for and for how long. It may be that a regular weekly date followed by mind blowing gay sex is what you are looking for, perhaps you want someone for a weekend once a month to relax and unwind with or perhaps you need someone to accompany you as a plus one to a special event. All these things and more are an option when you hire a gay escort to spend time with.

Be yourself with a Gay Escort

Sharing intimate details about your life is sometimes difficult but with a discrete rent boy you can be as open an honest as you want to be. There are very often times when gay men cannot be themselves or identify as gay in their work or home life and need some time with someone who won’t ask any questions or expect anything from them in return.

Travelling alone is rarely anyone’s first choice so if you are travelling on business and want a companion or going on holiday and want some great company, they then boyfriend experience can be a real asset to your trip, romance, laughter, sensuality and friendship all in one!

Romance with a Gay Escort

If you are looking for romance without any hassle, devotion without having to worry about what they want in return and something a little more soulful that just gay sex (however good it is) then spending time with a gay escort who offers a complete, discrete boyfriend experience is the perfect options to fill that space in your busy life.

Sexual Fantasies can be about, related to, or include just about anything and whatever your favourite Gay Sex Fantasy is we are wondering if it is better than making real love to a beautiful man? To dream & to desire and to let our minds wander to places of fun and ecstasy is normal and healthy but have you ever acted out a gay sex fantasy and been disappointed?

Gay Escorts are Better than Gay Sex Fantasies

Most of us have acted out some of our fantasies in some shape or form, and probably have many, many more floating about in our heads. And after asking a few of our London Gay Escorts they said that in the main acting out a fantasy is a fulfilling and exciting sex experience. That bringing a sex fantasy to life was thrilling, if thinking, planning, and imagining your favourite scenario feels great in your mind then it is probably going to feel amazing on (and in) your body.

Why Sexual Fantasies are Great!

Thinking about your fantasy is half of the fun! You imagine, plan and imagine again. To drift in your mid to a place where anything you can imagine can happen and be indulged without any fear or worry is relaxing and erotic and you can be as explicit as you like!

The thing that puts most people off from turning their sexual fantasies into reality is asking for it to happen in the real world. Fantasies can be extremely personal things and while you may wish for them to become real lots of us find it difficult to ask our sexual partners for what we really want.

We as humans want our sexual desires to be catered for but sometimes, we just don’t ask and here are some of the top reasons why:

• We don’t want to be embarrassed if the person we tell or ask to join in on our sexual fantasies thinks what we are asking for is weird or silly
• We don’t want to be rejected – if we ask for our fantasy to be turned into reality and we are told no, then that will crash the fantasy along with the hope of playing it out.
• We are not sure how our sexual partner will respond to being asked – we don’t want them to feel uncomfortable, and what if they don’t even understand what we are asking for
• What if we ask for our fantasy to be fulfilled and it is, and then in return we have to fulfil someone else’s desires and it is something we don’t want to do!

At Sleepy Boy our Gay Escorts are incredible at bringing your fantasy scenarios to life. All the rent boys available on our site will listen to your desires and help you get them fulfilled. They are experienced and wonderful and are happy to talk through any Gay Sex Fantasy you have and how you want it fulfilled without you having to feel embarrassed about asking.

Gay Escorts and Gay Sex Fantasies

The best part about using a gay escort for your gay sex fantasy is that you will never have to worry about having to reciprocate unless you want to!! Our Gay Escorts, that are available in London, Manchester and across the UK, are experts in turning the delicious fantasies in your mind into fully satisfied sexual experiences for you.

Gay Escorts are not just great lovers, they are also great at giving gay massage too! Did you know there were different kinds of gay massage? Here is a quick overview of some types of massage you can ask your gay escort for.

Gay Massage and Gay Escorts

Relaxing Sensual Massage - Most of us live a fast-paced life and having a Masseur deliver a great massage that promotes relaxation and well-being is all part of having a sensual Massage. Our Gay Masseurs are available any time of day or night so whenever you are in the mood for, or can one into your busy schedule, a relaxing and rewarding sensual massage will be available to you.

Hot Tub Sensual Massage - We can’t think of anything better than settling into a steamy tub with a gorgeous guy for an incredible Gay Massage – we don’t think anyone will disagree!

Gay Massage in You Hotel - Gay Masseurs are available for in calls and out calls so if you want some company in your hotel then go to sleepyboy.com to see which Gay Escorts are available. We have great guys across the UK so wherever you are staying whether its London, Manchester, or Cardiff they are available to see you.

Gay Massage in a Sauna - Gay Saunas are great as they have lots of amenities and you can spend a whole day or evening exploring all the different rooms and trying out the sauna, steam room or pool and this makes them a great place to get a Gay Massage.

Erotic Gay Massage - Sometimes you have to ask for what you want and having an erotic Gay Massage using different toys is definitely something to try and enjoy. Gay Massage can incorporate any of your fantasies so remember to ask your masseuse for what you like.

Intimate Gay Massage - Having a Gay Massage can be a very intimate experience and this means you really want to get a professional and experienced Masseur who can put you at ease and give you the best massage you have ever had. The Massage experts on SleepyBoy.com give the best Gay Massages around.

Aromatherapy Gay Massage - Having some aromatherapy oils is a great idea when you are having you Gay Massage can tap into some deep relaxation. There are many different massage and aromatherapy oils available, and your masseur will be able to recommend some great options.

Gay Massage in your Home - If you are looking for a Gay Masseur to come to your home for a great night in then see the search options available on sleepyboy.com and find a Gay Massage specialist who is near to you.

Threesome Gay Massage - If you are looking for a more exotic Gay Massage then try inviting one or more people to get involved is a great idea. Taking the time to explore each other’s bodies is a great way to enjoy Gay Massage in a threesome.

Find the best gay escorts for massage on www.sleepyboy.com

As a sexually open-minded kind of guy who likes to hook up with a gay escort from time to time, you’ve probably heard of a variety of different fetishes that arouse and stimulate a pleasurable sexual response. You may already be familiar with stuff like bondage and foot fetishism, and maybe one or two other kinks.

What is Quirofilia?

Not the most common of gay sex fetishes but one of the most interesting with lots of opportunities to discover new sensations! In case you’re not already aware, quirofilia is the name given to the fetish that focuses on hands and is also identified as being a partialism (the eroticisation of a particular body part). Although being sexual attracted to a specific part of the body is generally considered to be outside of the sexual interest mainstream, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with getting turned on by the sight of hands and fingers.

Kinky Gay Sex

You may have already discovered that you have a secret sexual fetish, and you’re sexually aroused watching a gay escort’s hands glide all over your body while you’re having a relaxing massage. If this fetish is completely new to you, you may be keen to explore quirofilia with a gay escort on a no strings attached illicit hook up.

5 Fun Ways to Try Quirofilia with A Gay Escort

Gay Escorts are gay sex experts so if you want to try this, or any other fetish Gay escorts really are the best men to ask. You can get exactly what you want without having to return the favour to them!

Before you excitedly explore any type of sexual kink with a gay escort, it’s important that you show respect by talking about your fantasy and requesting consent.

Since hands are significant sexual tools, there are unlimited ways in which you can use them to your arousal advantage.

Glove it Up - Ask your gay escort to wear an outfit that includes the addition of leather gloves. You’ll get your kinky kicks from watching him slowly pull on each leather clad finger before peeling away the glove and seductively revealing hands and fingers.

Fetish as Foreplay - Use quirofilia as a form of foreplay by engaging in playful games that involve plenty of hand movements. You can play strip poker or strip tiddlywinks.

Perfect Hands - Ask your gay escort to give you a hand massage and return the favour. If your nails could do with a tidy up, a manicure may work just as well in eliciting an equally pleasurable response.

Oil it Up - Apply massage oils to the skin and focus your attention on your gay escort’s hands as they work their magic on your body.

Relax, Recline - Sit in a reclining position to enjoy the best view of an erotic double the pleasure hand job.

Whatever kinky gay sex fetish you want to try find the best gay escorts to try them with at www.sleepyboy.com

There’s someone out there for everyone! Gay culture has a handy way of distinguishing one type of gay male escort from another. No matter what your sexual preferences are, or the type of man you are ideally looking for, our Gay Escort guide will guide you in the right direction. Tall, rugged, hairy, slim, toned, flamboyant – they’re all there. So, the only thing that you need to decide now is - what’s the way forward for you?

Read through our list for a comprehensive guide that can help you make an informed choice

1. Bear. For those who prefer a solid physique, this could be the one. A bear is typically an older, larger, and more rugged man. He will also be hairier than some.
2. Cub. No mystery here! He is simply a younger version of a Bear.
3. Otter. A hairy but slimmer man, with a more toned, tanned physique available – if that’s your thing.
4. Jock. A harder man out of your gay escort choices. He will be into fitness, strength, and maintaining his ripped body in a big way.
5. Show Queen. Exactly as he sounds! This gay man will be flamboyant, very keen on drag, art and musicals, but most of all always putting on a good show. If you enjoy the limelight, then walk this way….
6. Circuit Queen. Hmm, how to describe? He will be fastidious about his appearance, and this typically involves dressing in a certain way – high top trainers, tank tops and sporting very short shorts. Like a Show Queen, being a Circuit Queen is all about strutting his stuff.
7. Chub. As bold as it sounds. A larger, hairier man with a softer, plumper, rounded body to enjoy. This cuddly man will be less outgoing than other types of gay escorts.
8. Twink. One of more well-known descriptions, this a young, slender, relatively hairless man who usually teeters on the confident/arrogant border. If you’re looking for a strong personality, then a twink could be the best gay escort for you.
9. Pup. Again, this doesn’t need a lot of description. A pup is a younger gay escort who is generally sweet, eager, and possibly naïve. He will often play a submissive role with a slightly older gay partner.
10. Gipster. Someone who is fond of the indie-lifestyle and very much has their own style. They normally like to hang out with other gipsters so if you like your escorts a bit off the beaten track, then this could be the man for you.
11. Daddy. This gay male cultivates that older, salt n’ pepper look. He’s established, wealthy and likes to treat a younger man by splashing the cash on a lavish lifestyle.
12. Wolf. As the name suggests, this a very sexually driven type of male escort. With only a semi-hairy body, he has a mysterious quality to offer you.
13. Daddy Chaser. Another type of escort which needs little definition. He will be infatuated with older men and usually a twink himself.

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The best thing about being on holiday is that you really get away from it all and relax, even if your itinerary is busy, being away from your normal routine and trying something new is a great way to recharge. The same can be said for sex, trying new things and experience new ways of having sex can really energise you. When you put the two together and have new sex while on holiday it can be mind-blowing and something you will remember forever.

Gay Escorts on a City Break

Because it is new and exciting sex in a new and exciting place, finding that person to have the sex with can be a little more challenging, but this is what makes it great, makes it better, makes it more interesting and more memorable, you are not falling into old routines, and you are not picking the same type of guy for the same type of gay sex. So, choose someone new, choose something new and really enjoy holiday sex for what it is.

Great Gay Holiday Sex

Whether it is new sights, new smells, new tastes or new people, being on holiday can me us excited and make us horny, forget finding that one Hollywood holiday romance, this is not what we are taking about, new holiday sex does not have to be truly romantic, but it does have to be hot, and it does have to be exciting. Holiday sex may also release some sexual inhibitions making us open to things we had never tried before, relaxation, lots of sleep and an adventurous spirit can make us also adventurous in the bedroom so take advantage and explore your sensual sexuality.

So how to find the man to have great gay sex on holiday with – there are a few ways:

Take a Gay Escort with You – This is one of the best ways to have holiday sex, not only will you have a handsome and charming companion, but you will also have someone who is willing and ready to meet all your sexual needs on holiday without you having to reciprocate and think about his needs – we think that sounds like perfect holiday sex. www.sleepyboy.com has an amazing assortment of sexy guys who are available for both UK and international travel.

Find a Gay Escort there – perhaps you don’t want a companion all the time, or you are travelling with people already but want to experience some great holiday sex wherever you are in the world, then look at the international escorts section of sleepyboy.com and find the location you are going to and message ahead to let them know you are coming, and you want to cum!

Remember that holidays do not have to be in exotic locations across the globe you can holiday on the UK, on a city break or even if you are travelling to UK cities for work, there is great gay sex to be had across the UK if you look out for it. However, we must admit, having sex on a warm beach or in front of a roaring fire in a ski resort does sound better that hotel room in Leeds!

Gay Escorts are skilled at and love anal sex. Whether giving or receiving these hot guys know everything there is to know about anal sex and they are happy to share their knowledge with you. The best way to get experience in steamy anal sex is to spend time with a gay escort. Find the hottest guys with the best technique on www.sleepyboy.com

Gay Escorts and Anal Sex

For some men, anal sex is a subject which can cause anxiety, and this really doesn't have to be the case. Sometimes anal sex can be seen as a taboo and many people lack knowledge about it, which can lead some to believe it will be unpleasant. However, this isn't the case, and the more you know about anal sex, the higher quality anal sex you will experience.

Difficulties can arise if the opening to the rectum is too tense, thereby initially becoming difficult for penile penetration, but once the penis is in, the rectum will expand, and it can then enlarge enough to accommodate your partner with ease. There is a lot of pleasure to be found from having anal sex, as the anus has many nerve endings, and upon penetration, the penis will stimulate the prostate gland, which can lead to fantastically intense orgasms.

Orgasmic Anal Sex

Anal sex is not only physically stimulating but psychologically invigorating too; as it is something incredibly intimate and erotic, and there also is a certain degree of trust surrendered to the giver.

Get to know your body, become comfortable, and experiment with different kinds of stimulation. Taking things slow and gentle is the best way to get started, as it will relax your internal sphincter. Experimenting with sex-toys, dildos, and anal beads as these are a great way to discover what you enjoy and learn distinct methods of reducing possible pain, as pressure and friction can be caused. You can reduce pain by making sure that you use enough lubricant; each person is different and will react to anal penetration differently, so using a good lube can be vital when pushing forward with the pleasures of anal sex.

Lubrication is the Key

You can never have enough lube! Practicing relaxation techniques, and deep breathing, can help with penile insertion. Communicate openly with your partner, and if things become uncomfortable, stop.

It may seem a little obvious, but it is important to think about anal hygiene. Good hygiene standards will make for a much better experience, and as well as looking after your own health, will prevent any embarrassing incidents with your gay escort.

Anal Sex Positions

Different positions can also help with comfort; but once again this is all down to the individual, as the size of erection and degree of curvature to the penis can come into play. Many men find it easier when their knees are bent in towards their chest; whether you are kneeling or lying on a bed, this position tends to be a good one to start with, as the anal canal is elongated. Always remember try to relax; so many irrational thoughts can run through your head when experiencing anal sex, but there is really no need for such worry.

Take your time, learn to relax, be comfortable and open regarding the feel of pressure on your anus, and you will soon learn how to have amazing, pain-free anal sex every time.